Same Sex Marriages
11/23/98Same-Sex Marriages(Should it be allowed? Should it involve children?)
“If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done
whatis detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their
heads.”- Leviticus20:13. “Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the
kingdom of God? Do notbe deceived: ......homosexual offenders.....will not
inherit the kingdom of God.”- 1 Corinthians 6:9-10. “Do not lie with a man as
one lies with a woman; that isdetestable.”-Leviticus 18:22. According to the
Bible same-sex marriages would be immoral and sinful. Beinggay and loving
another person is certainly not illegal, but uniting that couple in marriage
isnot only rejected by most of society but also by Judaism, Christianity and
Islam. As aChristian I find same-sex marriages unacceptable, but I know that not
all people believe inthe Bible and we do have freedom of religion in the US .
Courts in Hawaii would not allow same-sex marriages and that is now beinglooked
at as unconstitutional. Not allowing the marriages discriminates against
certaingroups that are United States citizens and that is unconstitutional. Even
though I don’t approve of same-sex marriages, according to our laws there
isreally no reason why the marriages shouldn’t take place. But I do think there
should belimitations. Marriages of the same-sex should not involve children.
There is no naturalway that two people of the same-sex could possibly have
children of their own and shouldnot be given custody of a child or the ability
to adopted a child. Governor Wilson, California republican is proposing to ban
“Second-parentadoptions, which in the past have been approved. These regulations
would require maritalstatus to be given to the Department of Social Services. I
don't believe that gay parents will cause such a child to be gay. But all
thingsbeing equal, I do believe that child is being deprived of crucial,
necessary two-sexingredients essential in parenting. That it takes a man and a
woman to produce that thirdperson is the most basic proof that a child needs
both a mommy and a daddy. Children who have parents of the same-sex would be
unbearable harassed by otherchildren and considered an outcast. An innocent
child put in a situation that would beemotionally stressful for most of their
youth-there is no need. Just imagine what a childwould go through. “Billy, which
one of your dads wore the dress in the wedding?” or“Suzy, which one of your moms
is coming to the mother-daughter picnic?” Why put kidsin an environment that is
not morally or socially acceptable in today’s society? Being gay should never
result in being harassed, hated or hurt. But sadly, beinggay also should never
mean being able to marry or adopt. Everything in life has a price.Being
childless is a high price. But a child's basic needs must always supersede the
desiresof an adult. Children must always come before self.
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